**Want Better Sex? Then Stop Acting Like You Know It All — w/ Sex Researcher Melanie Curtin**
Gentlemen, listen up: If you think you’ve already got sex figured out, this episode will lovingly (and thoroughly) prove you wrong.
In this no-holds-barred conversation, Dr. John sits down with the brilliant and bold Melanie Curtin — sex researcher, men’s coach, and total badass — to reveal what *over 5,000 women and men* have shared about their sex lives. What gets women turned on. How to initiate without being awkward. The surprising power of kink and play. And what actually separates a *forgettable* lover from an *unforgettable* one.
(Here’s a hint: It’s not jackhammering your way through foreplay like you’re building a freeway.)
We’re talking *real* skills. The kind of insights you’ll never get from Pornhub. The kind of wisdom that makes you the man she remembers — and craves — long after the lights go out.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
– What women *really* want in bed (yes, we asked them)
– How to initiate sex in ways that turn her on instead of turning her off
– Why kink and experimentation are about trust, not freak flags
– The essential difference between “sex” and *great* sex
– How to be present, confident, and connected — instead of just going through the motions
**About Melanie Curtin:**
Melanie is a sex researcher and men’s coach with a Master’s in Communication from Stanford. She’s been featured in *Inc.*, *TODAY*, *HuffPost*, *Forbes*, *Business Insider*, and more. For over six years, she’s helped men become the kind of partners women actually desire — emotionally present, confident, skilled, and sexy as hell.
📲 Learn more: [melaniecurtin.com](https://www.melaniecurtin.com)
So don’t be the noob who scrolls past this thinking “I’ve got this.” You don’t. And that’s OK. Because now, you can.
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