Latest Articles & Past Podcast Episodes
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Struggling With Motivation? Try These No‑BS Motivation Hacks
Let’s cut the crap: waiting for motivation to magically transform you into a productivity superhero is like hoping your cat will pay rent someday (after they tidy up their own kitty litter box). Motivation isn’t some mystical personality trait you’re born with—it’s a muscle you can train. Here’s how to stop whining and actually get…
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Take Off the Damn Mask: The Secret Struggle of Modern Masculinity
Dr. John Schinnerer | GuideToSelf.com | TheEvolvedCaveman.com | LoveIsntEnough.net Let’s be honest for a second — how much of your life feels like a performance? You wake up, put on your man-suit, adjust the emotional armor, and hit the stage. You nod like everything’s fine. You flex when needed. Get annoyed at stupidity. Laugh when…
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What a Shrink Does When Depressed: Real Tools From a Psychologist Who’s Been There
Dr. John Schinnerer | GuideToSelf.com | LoveIsntEnough.net | TheEvolvedCaveman.com Depression is the worst houseguest. It crashes into your life uninvited, eats all your emotional snacks, drains your energy, hijacks your joy, and then smugly whispers, “You’ll never feel better again.” And just to top it off, it convinces you that no one else has ever…
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Anger Management for Men: Why You’re Mad as Hell (and It’s Killing You)
By Dr. John Schinnerer GuideToSelf.com | TheEvolvedCaveman.com | LoveIsntEnough.net Let’s face it—life gives men *plenty* to be pissed about. Slow baristas. Idiots who text during red lights (which then become green lights). The old guy at the coffee shop who takes his phone call on speaker at full volume. Annoyance is baked into the…
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Why Men Still Suck at Expressing Emotions (And What It’s Costing Us)
By Dr. John Schinnerer | GuideToSelf.com | TheEvolvedCaveman.com Let’s be real: most men aren’t less emotional than women—we’re just less likely to show it. Or talk about it. Or even admit we’re feeling something unless it involves traffic or the Raiders losing (again). Decades of research now tell us what your emotionally intelligent friend, therapist,…
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The Top Secret to a Happier Life? Hint: It’s the Least Practiced Habit
By Dr. John Schinnerer [GuideToSelf.com](https://guidetoself.com) | [LoveIsntEnough.net](https://loveisntenough.net) Let’s be honest—between the stress, fear, and rage we’re all swimming in, most of us could use a serious boost in the happiness department. And here’s the good news: happiness isn’t just a feel-good emotion. It’s a game-changer. We’re talking better relationships, improved immune function, more creativity,…
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People-Pleasing Sabotages Your Sex Life. Here’s How to Stop
By Dr. John Schinnerer GuideToSelf.com LoveIsntEnough.net Let’s get brutally honest: most of us—especially the overachievers, the approval junkies, the conflict-averse—are pretty terrible at setting boundaries. We say “yes” when we mean “hell no” just to avoid rocking the boat. That’s people-pleasing. And while it might smooth things over in the moment, it slowly suffocates your…
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The Man Box is Bullsh*t: Why It’s Ruining Men and What We Can Do About It
by Dr. John Schinnerer, Award-winning Executive Coach, Author, Podcast Host Let’s not sugarcoat it—growing up male in our culture is like being handed a manual called “How to Be a Man,” except it’s written by emotionally stunted cavemen. From the time we’re toddlers, boys are dropped into a pressure cooker of outdated, toxic rules, many…
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Navigating Anger in Relationships: Expert Advice w/ Dr. John Schinnerer
Ready for a no-holds-barred chat on anger management, male irritability and their impact on relat…
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Better Male Friendships w/ Daniel Ellenberg, Ph.D.
Buckle up, intrepid listeners! Dr. John kicks off the latest episode of the Evolve Caveman Podcas…
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Ego Death and Your Evolution: Mastering Your Mind
**Ego Death & Psychedelic Rebirth — with AJ Murillo**Here is another mind-bending episode of …
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Meaning & Masculinity — w/ Author & Positive Psych Star John Sean Doyle
*Mud, Meaning & Masculinity — with Poet & Positive Psych Star John Sean Doyle** Wha…
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How To Age Well: A New Approach to Health & Wellness
Heart Surgeries, Health Bombs & Why Men Are Too Dumb to See a Doctor – with Dr. Jacob Kendall…
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How To Manage Stress And Anxiety Like A Boss
Join Dr. John on a sunny day in Danville as he dives deep into mastering stress and anxiety. With a blend of personal stories, practical tools, and a touch of humor, Dr. John explains what stress and anxiety are, why we experience them, and how to manage them effectively. Discover scientifically proven strategies such as…
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Mastering Stress Like A Boss: Dr. John’s Guide To Keeping Your Cool
Join Dr. John as he dives deep into the top ways to master stress and anxiety. With a blend of pe…
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Men’s Unseen Battle with Trauma
THE UNSEEN BATTLE: WHY MEN SUCK AT HEALING FROM TRAUMALet’s get real. Men don’t talk about trauma…
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Trust, Vulnerability, and Your Love Life
In this episode of the Evolved Caveman and Love Isn’t Enough podcasts, Dr. John and Joree intervi…
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Warrior Compassion: Healing Men and Mending Society
Warrior Compassion: Healing Men and Mending SocietyIn this episode of the Evolved Caveman podcast…
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From Self-Doubt to Fearlessness: Strategies for Success
In this episode of the Evolved Caveman podcast, Dr. John welcomes leadership and empowerment coac…