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Episode 155: The Man Box: How The Rules of Manhood Cut Men Off From Happiness, Relationship & Longevity

The Evolved Caveman w/ Dr. John Schinnerer
The Evolved Caveman w/ Dr. John Schinnerer
Episode 155: The Man Box: How The Rules of Manhood Cut Men Off From Happiness, Relationship & Longevity
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I’m preparing for a keynote speech at the Health 2.0 Conference this upcoming week in Las Vegas. So, I’m using the podcast as an opportunity to practice. 

The Man Box – The rules boys learn about what it means to be a man. Rules like:

Be aggressive. Win. Women are less than. Be self-reliant. Don’t ask for help. Big boys don’t cry. Be stoic. Don’t feel. Compete. Don’t be feminine. Don’t be gay. Don’t back down. 

While we can debate over the merit of some of these, the biggest problem in my mind is the rule of “Be stoic/Don’t feel.” Find out how this hamstrings men from finding true happiness, being in a fulfilling relationship and winning the game of life. I’ve heard too many “successful” men who are worth a shit ton of money complain to me that they are “miserable.” Life’s too short. The goal is success AND happiness. 

Topics Covered:

What are rules of the Man Box?

How do we learn them?

What emotions are we cut off from?

What emotions can we safely display in public without fear of embarrassment?

What underlies most male anger?

What’s the difference between depression in men and in women?

What areas do we need to evolve in for greater happiness?

How do we begin to evolve beyond the Man Box?

 

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